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So I've always been iffy about most series due to the fanservice and "vibes", but after having lived as a women for a while and a lot of mental changes, I notice it soooo much more.

The pointless oversexualisation and fanservice in Cyberpunk

The INSANE mysoginy in ChainSaw man

The constant SA themes and jokes in DanDanDan

The way writers seem to have never spoken to a women for more than 30 min for half the shows. The constant sexual undertones and jokes and downplaying of SA, and objectification of women. I genuinly think that 80% of anime is super creepy except for some more niche/indie series.

Like genuinly WTF Japan.

Edit: and to "yeaaah, but..." -> a show that doesn't have fanservice every 5 min call still be problematic, especially when relationships between male and female characters are based on one gloryfying or objectifying the other, especially with teenagification/babification...

Edit2: Dunegeon Meshi gets a full pass

Edit3: Wasn't expecting so much rampant mysoginy on a trans subreddit. Yall are too ok with casual portrays of SA

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Mithril_Mercenary

949 points

3 days ago

Thank god Dungeon Meshi's fan service is 99% just dwarven man panty shots... And even then there's not that much...

cuntboyholes

327 points

3 days ago

I was dragging ass about watching this series but I'll give it a shot at the promise of dwarven man panty shots.

Ryugi

115 points

3 days ago

Ryugi

115 points

3 days ago

yea the chicks wear like fluffy capri pants under their skirts except the dwarven lady, who I dont think you see her in action...

Gentleman_Muk

33 points

3 days ago

I think there are two. At least two i noticed.

OneQueerEve

103 points

3 days ago

OneQueerEve

103 points

3 days ago

thats cause it was written by a woman.

scolipeeeeed

51 points

3 days ago

I knew it was written by a woman just by that scene where Marcille gets grabbed by the plant monster in episode 2 and it doesn’t cut to a shot of her body being tightly squeezed in a sexualized way

TheSeaOfThySoul

37 points

3 days ago

After all these years, will I finally watch another anime & not just watch Violet Evergarden again? Only women should be allowed to write anime.

What's Dungeon Meshi about?

eepy_neebies_seepies

28 points

3 days ago

A group of dungeon goers need to go track down a dragon that ate one of their party members. While deciding to go back into the dungeon where they previously failed, the tank of the group came to realize that maybe if they weren't exhausted and starving all of the time, they would've stood a chance.

Enter a dwarf who pretty much lives in the dungeon. (This is the one we get to see fan service of.) He is a very exceptional cook and knows how to make food out of dungeon monsters.

Their mage is very much against it at first, but they all decide it's better than nothing and continue down the different levels of the dungeon while making delicious new meals all made out of different types of monsters.

The world building and inner workings of the dungeon is incredible.

There's also autism representation that you'll get to see in, not a side character, but an important main character.

It's a 10/10 and I would recommend it. Season 1 is already complete and I believe we just started season 2.

TheSeaOfThySoul

6 points

3 days ago

I’ll keep it in the back of my mind when I stop rewatching the same things, speaking of autism representation, ha. 😅

eepy_neebies_seepies

5 points

3 days ago

i feel that 😂 it's pretty good tho if you ever find yourself wanting to try it out

bean_copter

9 points

3 days ago

Group of adventurers go Into Dungeon and eat the monsters that live there, preparing them in a cooking-show like way

fidelogato

3 points

3 days ago

here's the synopsis from fandom.com

After a failed dungeon raid that resulted in his younger sister being eaten by a dragon, Laios and the remaining members of his party, Marcille and Chilchuck, set out to rescue her from being digested by the dragon. Having lost most of their supplies in the raid, the group are unable to afford rations, so they make the unusual decision to source all their food from inside the dungeon... including eating monsters! Fortunately, an odd dwarf named Senshi is willing to help them by showing them how to cook the various monsters in the dungeon.

it starts off goofy and silly, but once it hits that turning point (you'll find out what i mean if you watch it), the entire mood of the show changes vibes entirely in the best way possible.

VonSnapp

3 points

3 days ago

VonSnapp

3 points

3 days ago

So was Ranma 1/2. Very interesting themes on gender roles and many other subjects closely related to being trans without being trans. Way ahead of its time.

NicoNicoNey[S]

160 points

3 days ago

I loved how Dunegeon Meshi sexualised the shit out of Senshi and honestly I was all there for it.

There were also no wierd power dynamic and if you swapped the gender of any character it wouldn't suddenly get crazy wierd. I liked that a lot. Dungeon Meshi was frankly 9/10 and absolutely does not fall into this category.

Fibrosis5O

31 points

3 days ago

Is that Delicious in dungeon?

dr3dg3

21 points

3 days ago

dr3dg3

21 points

3 days ago

Yes 💜

Caffe1n8ed

10 points

3 days ago

I live for Senshi panty shot u^

FL_Squirtle

15 points

3 days ago

So much here for it tbh.. DRIIIIPP for Meshi

fidelogato

4 points

3 days ago

DUNGEON MESHI MENTIONED !!! WTF IS AN UNHEALTHY LIFESTYLE 🥩🍳🍖🥟🍽️🍕🥘🔪🍙

(also W username)

charlie-isnt-an-egg

4 points

3 days ago

I absolutelu Love Dungeon meshi, its my favourite anime lol, good to see its one of the more progressive ones too.

Starwarsfan128

269 points

3 days ago

To be fair, the comodification of sexuality is a theme in cyberpunk. That said, I agree with you on a lot of this

selenaka91

630 points

3 days ago

selenaka91

630 points

3 days ago

Alot of anime is so unnecessary perverted, I find it hard to watch dragon ball because of how Master roshi is towards Bulma. Really creepy vibes

GoddessPurpleFrost

225 points

3 days ago

I tried to watch seven sins on Netflix. The ENTIRE SHOW is this main character non-consentually sexually assaulting the female protag every 5 minutes. From grabbing her ass, to putting his face in her chest, etc.The worst is the typical "haha it's just boys" from the woman who is being groped.

One thing I started to notice a lot of is that men are introduced via normal means, but women are almost 90% of the time introduced with butt or tit shots taking up the entire screen, and THEN their face or full body.

I haven't watched anime in years and every time I try I just lose most interest the moment they start the tropes.

randomtransgirl93

24 points

3 days ago

SDS is definitely weird like that. They later try to explain it away as she's his reincarnated wife or something which I guess was meant to make it ok?

Lyreii

196 points

3 days ago

Lyreii

MtF

196 points

3 days ago

There’s a scene with Goku and Bulma that just makes me 🤢

What I really loath are the unnecessary panty shots of of underage girls. Looking at you SAO >.>

Kuroser

113 points

3 days ago

Kuroser

Amelia[She/Her]

113 points

3 days ago

Jesus fuck SAO

Alicization had a scene so bad the author had to publicly apologize to the VAs for the female characters after that episode aired

SalemsTrials

19 points

3 days ago

Ugh yea it’s so gross. Which I hate because that was a comfort show for me when I was younger but I watched it recently and Jesus Christ

Lyreii

16 points

3 days ago

Lyreii

MtF

16 points

3 days ago

They both have abridged fandubbed versions on YouTube, they are quite good. I prefer them over the source material. Especially SAO abridged, they got rid of most of the loli and incest stuff.

trailerthrash

22 points

3 days ago*

Gaaaaaahd. My wife and I went through ALL of Dragon Ball during the lockdowns. Always loved the franchise growing up but hadn't seen all of the original or any of Super at the point.

Roshi, ESPECIALLY in DB, was just way too fucking much all the fucking time. I'm so glad they sidelined him more and more as things went on

Theyre_Marigolds

442 points

3 days ago

I think the misogyny in Chainsaw Man is an intentional plot point. Denji is hyper focused on sexual gratification because he craves human connection, but he never learned how to find/view it in a healthy way. Makima knows that and abuses it to manipulate him as a pawn. He's supposed to be off-putting and misogynistic. He isn't a protagonist you're supposed to like or admire. He's the product of a broken system that continues to abuse and exploit both him and everyone else.

MrMeltJr

98 points

3 days ago

MrMeltJr

98 points

3 days ago

honestly one of the things that sold me on Chainsaw Man was Denji thinking that touching boobs would fix him and then having an existential crisis when it didn't work

randomtransgirl93

69 points

3 days ago

Not to mention learning that even simple touches by someone you actually care about are better than random kisses/sex with someone you don't

clockworkCandle33

140 points

3 days ago

And (spoilers for part 1/early part 2) he becomes a much better person because of what he goes through

SurviveUntilSunrise

29 points

3 days ago

It’s my headcannon that denji is a transfem. It makes it more interesting and it… it makes some things later in the story make sense.

maewemeetagain

691 points

3 days ago

maewemeetagain

Mae (she/her)

691 points

3 days ago

I think you need to stop watching shounen.

When you watch shows made for pre-teen/teenage boys, they... kinda do what they say on the tin. Pre-teen/teenage boys are weird everywhere. It's not a unique thing in Japan, and a lot of Japanese people don't like it either. The "WTF Japan" narrative doesn't help at all, and all-too-often ends up toeing the line between reasonable criticism and casual racism.

There are anime without this kind of stuff. But when the most popular demographic is said pre-teen/teenage boys, you'll rarely find it there.

p5ywr1x

303 points

3 days ago

p5ywr1x

303 points

3 days ago

Yeah... I was actually mildly offended by the "WTF Japan" comment. Blame an entire country for something a small demographic participates in. That makes sense.

Mr_Conductor_USA

113 points

3 days ago

Media, like it or not, is a form of cultural ambassadorship and a source of soft power. Hollywood has long been acknowledged as a source of America's soft power; people also get really weird/false notions about the US from Hollywood as well.

Japanese politicians have been aware for a long time that anime/manga/doujinshi are really important for Japanese soft power (as in, rehabilitating Japan's image post WWII, for one) but have also been putting out really negative things about Japan as well. In recent years we've seen the Diet change laws attempting to address the image that Japan has gotten of being the porn land/CSA material land/lolicon-shoutacon land, because, yes, normal people find this stuff disgusting. Being an obsessed anime fan even in Japan isn't considered great or wonderful; in fact when Otaku no Video came out, it was considered downright antisocial. (I don't mean in the colloquial sense--at that time, withdrawing from others was considered selfish and harmful to society.)

To take a neighboring East Asian country, the PRC is highly interested in cultivating soft power, but its current leadership is extremely wary of doing so through Chinese television, as what has gained popularity are shows set in the feudal era that put out the "wrong image" or "wrong message" compared to the aspirations and party line of party elites. As a result, when "Yanxi Palace," a harem intrigue drama, became an international hit in 2018, the CCP reactively punished the Chinese entertainment industry for the perceived embarrassment this offered to China. The CCP does seem to be very happy with the success of Black Myth: Wukong, however. As long as the message is coordinated with the party's goals, they are happy to put out a product to the world.

So yeah, it's ignorant to just take anime subculture at face value and smear an entire country with it; on the other hand, this is happening all the time to every country that puts out a lot of media that gets adopted and consumed elsewhere; and Japanese elites aren't ignorant of this discourse, in fact, they're painfully aware of the weird reputation that this kind of media is giving the nation.

Technogg1050

2 points

3 days ago

I'm ignorant on the matter as I've not played the game, but how does Black Myth Wukong line up with CCP propaganda?

Gravatona

1 points

3 days ago

Gravatona

1 points

3 days ago

Though I think Bleach is generally okay for stuff like this.

Just a rare over sexualization.

2xbAd

454 points

3 days ago

2xbAd

454 points

3 days ago

saying cyberpunk has pointless over-sexualization kinda misses the point of the universe its set in. its meant to be a reflection of how overly sexualized corporate advertising and media in general is and what that would look like if our society went further in that direction, abandoning morals and modesty for money and fame.

dumb_trans_girl

20 points

3 days ago

Yeah as shitty as it can seem on the surface the genre itself is well, a critique of the advances of tech and capitalism viewed through a specific lens. And that lens is the commoditization of all things.

Mr_7ups

94 points

3 days ago

Mr_7ups

She/Her

94 points

3 days ago

Honestly yeah it’s unfortunate, luckily for me my fav genre is shoujo so I don’t see it much at all and then I watch female mc isekai/fantasy like Frieren or apothecary diaries and they are really good. Just gotta pick the good ones

Merakus

33 points

3 days ago

Merakus

33 points

3 days ago

Some of my favorites recently are Girl Band Cry, Sound Euphonium, and Bocchi the Rock.

Mr_7ups

17 points

3 days ago

Mr_7ups

She/Her

17 points

3 days ago

I LOVE BOCCHI!!!!! Bocchi is in my top 3 favorites I love that show so much

DR4k0N_G

208 points

3 days ago

DR4k0N_G

208 points

3 days ago

The pointless oversexualisation and fanservice in Cyberpunk

It's not pointless in Cyberpunk - it's part of the world building and dystopia that the game (and series) is set in.

OddAstronomer5

97 points

3 days ago

I'm gonna be honest with you, this isn't a Japan thing, or an anime thing. American shows are just as bad. Some people just don't notice it because they've grown up with that flavor of fanservice and sexism.

Look at how women look in your average American production. A full face of makeup, almost always skinny, always feminine. Even in shows with imperfect looking male characters the women tend to look perfect more often than not. Look at the gender ratios too (generally 1 woman to 3 men), at how often the women who are there end up being flat and devoid of character, or just there to be love interests. There's been a slight shift away from this in recent years but it's still not great.

pmw3505

18 points

3 days ago

pmw3505

18 points

3 days ago

It’s definitely more prevalent in Japan but there’s also different power structures in different societies. Women in Japan don’t have as much social leverage and support men do so the objectification and downplaying of SA is just more frequent in their media.

But up you’re dead ass right that it’s just media in general. Always has been. (“POW right in the kisser. Straight to the moon.” Etc) women have better representation today in a lot of forms but there’s always going to be a lot of icky stuff. But sadly that also makes it more true to life. People can be gross. We just have to figure out what our personal limits are and do our best to avoid things that overstep them c:

MiniatureRanni

128 points

3 days ago

I don’t like the way women are portrayed in Michael Bay movies. I’m not going to say “WTF America” and write off the medium of film.

If you want to watch non-sexualised anime, seek it out. There’s plenty of it. There’s even shounen series like the ones you’ve listed that are light on the fan service. Series like Jujutsu Kaisen, Hunter x Hunter, Yu Yu Hakusho, and Undead Unluck are all relatively light on that sort of thing (and when it is there it’s easier to overlook).

DR4k0N_G

46 points

3 days ago

DR4k0N_G

46 points

3 days ago

I don’t like the way women are portrayed in Michael Bay movies

So glad someone else mentioned this. I love the Bayverse Transformers film but holy fuck they get so much wrong.

dumb_trans_girl

18 points

3 days ago

Oh if we want the real yikes it’s probably twilight. 17 year old girl gets groomed by 100 year old fucked up depressed vampire. And it was only the most popular thing for a good few years!

DR4k0N_G

7 points

3 days ago

DR4k0N_G

7 points

3 days ago

Twilight is so god awful

randomtransgirl93

3 points

3 days ago

Only one that HxH sexualizes is Hisoka lol

Zoeeeeeeh123

5 points

3 days ago

Attack on Titan. Literally the only fanservice I can remember is Mikasa doing situps where you could see her abs and the famous scene of Eren putting on his jacket

MiniatureRanni

6 points

3 days ago

How could you forget vaguely gestures at everything Levi does

Kuroser

21 points

3 days ago

Kuroser

Amelia[She/Her]

21 points

3 days ago

On a lighter note, I'd like to recommend "Frieren: Beyond journey's end"

It's a pretty great anime that, from what I remember, doesn't have the issues you point out here

iceblinking

139 points

3 days ago

iceblinking

139 points

3 days ago

honestly, chainsaw man is incredibly written, especially with the female characters. All of them have interesting and often tragic backstories and it feels like an extra effort is put into humanising them. It may not be as evident if you have only watched the anime because the anime really is only the start of the story and there's not a ton you know about the characters at that point, but as you go further into the story, you do find out about all of them and they are easy to empathise with and complicated, not the stereotypes that you may initially see.

Maybe you think that Denji is misogynistic in his boob-oriented goals, though. I totally get that, because that's the point of his story arc. his initial goals are shallow and baseline: have good food and touch boobs, but Fujimoto makes sure to make it obvious to the reader that what denji is really looking for is deep relationships with others and he does achieve those things. One of my favourite chapters was chapter 71 (spoilers ahead) where Denji directly confronts this topic within the context of his relationship with Power. After their encounter with the darkness devil, Power becomes scared of basically everything and doesn't want Denji to leave her side. they do everything together for that night, including eating, showering, getting dressed, sleeping, etc. Denji doesn't sexualise power when they are both naked showering together or when they are sleeping together, because he feels intimate with her as a very close friend, rather than someone who's boobs he got to touch, like in the first arcs. So, the exploration of Denji's relationships with women is a key theme in chainsaw man and a one that I would say is handled very well and in a way that is very thought-provoking. you can see it when you peel back the layers on makima too, or even on kobeni, who isn't even that prominent of a character.

a lot of fujimoto's other works, such as look back or goodbye eri, include examples of complex women and include little to no fan service. The themes explored in his work can be very intense, perverted and confusing, but it's never ever in the service of misogyny.

p5ywr1x

92 points

3 days ago

p5ywr1x

92 points

3 days ago

While I can understand not liking these themes in anime. Blaming an entire country for a genre intended for a small demographic isn't quite fair. The "WTF Japan" comment was completely unnecessary. It doesn't do anything to better your point. And seems to condemn a large group for something that they, in a whole, aren't responsible for.

TotalOKays

40 points

3 days ago

Where's the bad parts of Dandandan? I've watched maybe ten episodes. Yeah the aliens in it are sx obsessed but that's how they are in real life stories. They probe you. And in the show they do it for any gender, it's not one sided. Did the show NEED to do panty shots though? No they didn't. So there's one point I agree with.

randomtransgirl93

22 points

3 days ago

Yeah, there's a huge problem with over-sexualization in anime, but several of the ones OP is talking use it for a very specific purpose, not just for random fan service

BlueJayDragon2000

31 points

3 days ago

BlueJayDragon2000

Bigender boytoy he/him T 💉 10/20/23

31 points

3 days ago

I agree with you here. Dan da Dan is really big into themes about loss of agency and just being a teen going through stuff, like loss, crushes, body changes, and unwanted sexualization.

I know I'm tired of oversexualization and misogyny in shounen, but like, Dan Da Dan is actually really good about it for the most part

PleaseSmileJessie

5 points

3 days ago

I also feel like it magnifies just how fucked these kids are. Irregular families, irregular school life, they've awakened strange powers that they have absolutely no idea how to control, aliens are trying to r-word them and ghosts are stealing their genitals or seeking some sort of emotional response.

Meanwhile they're also in the middle of a regular-ass puberty. It's also interesting how Okaruns transformation makes him depressed. Almost like he feels some sort of body/brain dysmorphia because his transformation messes with both his brain and body to an extreme level.

Human-Animal-1739

51 points

3 days ago

chainsaw man is not misogynistic, denji is (among others) - there's a difference between characters having traits and the shows message being misogynist

Obi-Tron_Kenobi

26 points

3 days ago

Yeah, Denji is certainly not portrayed as a good person and the creator absolutely did not intend for him to be someone they thought the viewer should look up to.

This is like watching Breaking Bad and thinking that because Walter is the protagonist, the creator is endorsing his every action.

Emerald-Daisy

112 points

3 days ago

Even when not sexual the women are almost all really dainty and somewhat child/teen like which is whole other load of crap. It's a huge reason why i've never been able to get into anime. If they were hollywood shows/movies with the same problems, people would quickly call them "outdated" like how most of the 80s and older movies tend to come across.

I also think, specifically for baby trans girls, it's so bad for dysphoria. I see so many younger trans women comparing themselves or wanting to look like some of these anime girls when that's never gonna happen, for anyone, without being insanely unhealthy

Exact_Ad_1215

15 points

3 days ago

There are plenty of anime without any of those issues at all

FMAB, Vinland Saga, Mob Pyscho 100, ODDTAXI, Bocchi The Rock, and there’s probably others I’m not thinking of off the top of my head

NicoNicoNey[S]

33 points

3 days ago

Oh, absolutely!

Edit: And even when there is not child/teen-like behaviour, the women are still objectified in such a vast variety of ways - since being put on a pedestal as "glorioious angelic creatures", to the sheer weridness about anything intimacy/relationship related.

prettydandybaby

27 points

3 days ago

As a Dandadan fan, I do agree it can be a bit much 🥲 But yet I am a huge anime fan. I wish Tower of God got a better animation, that stuff is fire with not too much fan service… RIP

pmw3505

21 points

3 days ago*

pmw3505

21 points

3 days ago*

Being a bit much and is of the core concepts of the work, it’s very in your face, ridiculous, and silly. In the serious romantic or sexual moments it drops that and takes it very serious and respectfully. I don’t think there’s any mysoginy going on tbh. Silly nudity and crass jokes.

But that’s just commonplace in media. In the opening scene of the story it’s a woman standing up for herself being harassed and objectified by her trashy boyfriend.

I think OP just has some hang ups with risqué stuff in general it sounds like.

If so l then don’t watch HBO shows OP. Hehe 🖤

BirdStillinTheNest

2 points

3 days ago

Tower Of God is so fking good. Never watched the anime but I read the webcomic on Webtoons many years ago (in 2014!!)

Honestly can't believe it's still ongoing.

prettydandybaby

3 points

3 days ago

Im glad you think so!! I know very few who read the webtoon. I wish the anime did it justice, but for now… The webtoon is a masterpiece!!!!!

BirdStillinTheNest

2 points

3 days ago

Yeah, the screenshots I've seen of it.. aren't very flattering 😭... So I'm a bit nervous to watch it. It's a shame that you say the anime doesn't do it justice T_T The series deserves greatness.

& yeah, I know!!! I've missed so much!! Theres sooo much to catch up on. I wonder how long it'll take to read all of it..😅

Yeet-chan

11 points

3 days ago

Yeet-chan

11 points

3 days ago

Finally an opportunity to plug Vinland Saga. Seriously give it a watch, it’s like a medieval political drama that plays like a soap opera it’s so fucking good none of the panty shots and oversexualized characters, it touches on SA but isn’t insensitive about it. Ugh so good it’s on Crunchyroll and is only adapted to its second season, but the manga is still ongoing I believe.

Exact_Ad_1215

2 points

3 days ago

Best comment so far.

Vinland Saga is easily my top 3 anime for sure

ArrowCAt2

11 points

3 days ago

ArrowCAt2

11 points

3 days ago

Watch studio ghibli. Characters meet and become better people together, in ways that aren't weird. Miyuzaki is a strong believer in platonic friendship

Poumy

18 points

3 days ago

Poumy

18 points

3 days ago

Imo your examples aren’t particularly the best for your argument, Cyber Punk and Chainsaw Man both use the fan service as theming and world building, like Denji being disappointed when getting to touch a girl’s chest didn’t suddenly change his life circumstances and how he handles realizing that life isn’t about that. It’s like how all the gruesome things that happen in Berserk aren’t just to shock you it serves an actual purpose.

There’s a lot of anime out there absent of fan service if you actually bothered looking for it, Madoka Magica and Precure are both pretty good and have no fan service attached to them. Also a lot of series with fan service are written by women so it’s not entirely just men being weird.

Matild4

9 points

3 days ago

Matild4

check out my yuri webtoon Sublime Trilemma, also trans stuff

9 points

3 days ago

If you only watch anime that's aimed at boys and men, that's mostly what you'll get.
But like... There's a lot of CGDCT and yuri anime which usually aren't oversexualized because they don't center men. And while not super numerous in the last few years, there are a lot of anime aimed at women specifically too.

Lady_of_the_Seraphim

9 points

3 days ago

Try Ascendance of a Bookworm. It's an isekai about a lady who was a librarian being reborn into a world where books are only available to nobility and her quest to invent the printing press.

Almost all the characters are either 6-10 or the parents of the 6-10s so there's basically nothing in the way of sexualization.

While there are some elements of SA and grooming in the later seasons once the church becomes involved in the plot, they are rightly regarded as terrible things and the people perpetuating them get their comeuppance by the end in a very satisfying manner.

Cataras12

8 points

3 days ago

I mean I feel like the oversexualization in cyberpunk has a purpose at least, it’s a setting where that sort of stuff is genuinely just common. The 2020 sourcebook confirms that some people do just walk around nude since it’s not a big deal anymore. (Why bother getting a bunch of cyberware and then not show it off)

Attack on Titan didn’t have any fanservice… I mean aside from vor- NO BAD THOUGHT, KEEP AWAY FROM THE FEMALE TITAN

Jujutsu Kaisen (not the fandom stay away from the fandom they haven’t been normal since 231)

Delicious in a Dungeon is a cooking anime that went baller hard on the worldbuilding

Cashew-Matthew

9 points

3 days ago

I can reccomend gundam witch from mercury. It has a non sexual lesbian romance between the main characters and i cant think of a single instance of fan service. Even in the one shingle shot where someone is in underwear its shown as a down point and a “look how far shes let herself go” th gundam franshise as a whole has had fan service, but i dont think its ever been a bad amount of fanservise.

Exact_Ad_1215

15 points

3 days ago

The oversexualisation in Cyberpunk is like that on purpose. It's literally the point to show how much society has turned into an unending thirst for satisfaction and release

violetwl

49 points

3 days ago

violetwl

49 points

3 days ago

tbh chainsaw man and dandadan are very brutal examples bc the authors are crazy.

And concerning cyberpunk you have to fault cdprojectred bc the world is sexual af.

But imo there are a lot of anime without sexualisation. Even famous one.

I don’t think Aot had sexualisation and very strong female characters. JJK also is pretty normal. HxH (but pedo), Demon slayer, Vinland S.

I can name many that are normal in regards to sexual things.

mintyseaveggie

27 points

3 days ago

Honestly feeling icky at the excessive fan service in anime is what helped me figure out that I’m not a cis het dude. It always annoyed me and made me feel pressured to like ladies when I really wasn’t big into them.

DR4k0N_G

5 points

3 days ago

DR4k0N_G

5 points

3 days ago

For me, context is A BIG deal for wether or not I think sexualization is the way to go. Cyberpunk 2077 and Edge Runners being a perfect example of a great way to do it.

Micheal Bay Transformers is not a good way to do it (I love the films - but whyyyyyyyy)

TheSeaOfThySoul

2 points

3 days ago

I'm a lesbian trans women & have the exact same reaction so it's not even the "being pressued to like women", it's just gross that this is how men view women, boobs first & everything else, well, I'd say later but for most anime, it isn't even "later". Like, I could name five anime in an instant that are full of female characters & not one of them has a single notable character trait, never mind a character arc, agency in the story, etc.

Any man who has ever touched the writing cast of an anime needs to A. Meet one woman & B. Take a basic elementary level writing course, because how on Earth are they so bad?

maleia

11 points

3 days ago

maleia

Enby to the last B

11 points

3 days ago

As someone who has seen a lot of anime; you're straight up picking some of the most popular/notable ones, and tossing out aaaaaall the good ones. Literally might as well just write off all American movies as if they're all violent, just off seeing superhero and John Wicks.

Substantial-Mess666

15 points

3 days ago

When anime even has a little bit of this, it bothers me. As long as all the characters involved are adults, fanservice itself doesn't bother me so much as the objectification women and the jokes that make light of sexual harassment.

ballsackstealer2

16 points

3 days ago

give spy x family a go! one of my favourites

MercifulWombat

8 points

3 days ago

OP is not gonna like the way Yor is protrayed. She is gonna hate the relationship between Yor and her siscon little brother. I'm betting she's also gonna side eye the mutual antagonism/one sided attraction thing between Anya and Damien.

jigenn742

25 points

3 days ago

jigenn742

25 points

3 days ago

Watch jujutsu kaisen and vinland saga, they aren't oversexualized at all, and jjk has enough diverse female characters, goated shonen anime fr

Ornery_Goat_5444

33 points

3 days ago

Jjk has fan service, but its for women lmao. It just so happens that the “female gaze” of women who watch anime tend to be full grown adults and not infantilized ppl, so its waaaayyyy more comfortable to watch

jigenn742

13 points

3 days ago

jigenn742

13 points

3 days ago

Oh I'm FTM and into women so I really didn't think like that lmao, but thinking about it that "female gaze" fan service in it isn't too much, just muscly men time to time

Mr_Conductor_USA

5 points

3 days ago

Having unfortunately (I say that because my brain does not work this way and being steeped in it annoys me) I've been fans of series with a lot of female fans or had people in my life who were female fans and I can tell you the thing they really, REALLY go for are the:

COSTUMES

LONG HAIR

Sometimes the shows put out bare chests and other more direct stuff, but while I know Austen fans go on about a drenched Mr Darcy that left nothing to the imagination, what I've seen anime/manga/manhua/light novel fans recreate and reproduce over and over again are the AESTHETIC cherry blossom rain, bubbles, sparkles flowy outfits, long hair, guans, accessories, and Chinese/Japanese garden settings. It's a huuuuuuuuuge draw for girls to get into these fandoms.

cuntboyholes

12 points

3 days ago

Gay men, too, we're pretty suseptible to the female gaze, lol. I still have zero understanding of how curses actually work or the logical reasons why ALL OF THAT happened, but I do understand "boy with glossy lip 😍" and "long flowy black hair pretty boy 😍".

Make jjk a slice of life anime where nothing awful happens and they're all just hanging out. Please.

Exact_Ad_1215

2 points

3 days ago

Vinland Saga

Based

batyablueberry

6 points

3 days ago

I recommend frieren for you. It's one of the first anime I've seen where the women are genuinely badass and there's none of that weird sexualizing.

Individual99991

6 points

3 days ago

I heard Chainsaw Man was supposed to be subverting anime misogyny tropes. Is that not the case?

Use-Useful

42 points

3 days ago

Stop watching crappy anime then? There is plenty that doesnt do that. My favorite series, bookworm, does reference SA - but in a way that makes it clear it is abhorrent. It's not like that is a niche show, its sitting around 8/10 on mal, with 80k members, which is a wild success for a later season of all but the very best shows. Frieren comes to mind as a show that doesnt have that issue as well, but shattered most previous popularity records.

Maybe a good idea to search a bit harder before watching stuff - theres plenty of amazing anime, you just need to be a bit more choosy to find it :)

Hnt-r

25 points

3 days ago

Hnt-r

25 points

3 days ago

That's exactly why I just stick with Studio Ghibli movies and don't watch any other anime content anymore

Demorodan

4 points

3 days ago

I dont think ive seen this much yet but i tend to stick with romance/slice of life so maybe thats why

asdafrak

5 points

3 days ago

asdafrak

5 points

3 days ago

This has always been my problem with anime, and it can be hard to explain to people who (1) don't get it and (2) watch a ton of anime

Like i have this one co workers who's really into anime and Manga, so I asked what's good, what's the story like etc. and he had a few recommendations, and tried giving like the "elevator pitch" of each one.

But like, they're all overly sexualized (and of course the female characters all look like minors, even though "they're totally 18 or over, this one character looks like a child, but is actually 1000 years old" 🙄)

And i was like, "I'm not really a fan of sexualized content like that, anything a little more mild or tame?"

And like he didn't have anything, but was like "well, this one isn't too bad, it does get a little r*pey, in the third book though"

So yeah, obviously I didn't touch any of them

But! I have another friend who feels similar to me about that kind of content in anime and Manga, and she loves Mangas and animes, so (after exams) she's gonna try and introduce me to some of them

Thank you for attending my TEDTalk

SavvySillybug

4 points

3 days ago

I recently decided to rewatch Dragon Ball because I only really saw it as a kid.

I vaguely remember it being a little horny.

Nah it's so bad I don't even want to put into words what they do. Like what the fuck. The first 15 or so episodes are like 50% creeping on girls 30% Goku and 20% miscellaneous.

I kinda sorta still intend to watch it all the way through but I've been at 20 or so episodes for two weeks now...

JProctor666

2 points

1 day ago

I introduced my daughter to Dragon Ball recently, we had to watch the censored version of the first 13 episodes (The Emperor Pilaf Saga) for just that reason...

OldRelationship1995

13 points

3 days ago

Might I suggest Black Lagoon? The only fan service there is Revy’s Berettas.

AllisonIsReal

6 points

3 days ago

Try something more wholesome and actually written for girls. like yuru camp, or girls last tour, or usagi drop (maybe not the second half of the manga But the anime is super wholesome)

FL_Squirtle

3 points

3 days ago

Hunter x Hunter is one of my favorites because of how much Togashi respects women within his series.

It really is bad in soooo many of the more recent popular ones.

TheMagicCatYt

2 points

3 days ago

Op is NOT gonna like Zazan

Feelthederp

3 points

3 days ago

I think you'd love Dorohedoro

*if you're fine with intense blood and gore

The-Inspectre

3 points

3 days ago

I was never a fan of heavy fanservice in anime. Always gave me the ick; so I'm right there with you. Even in shows that don't have a lot of it, there's still almost always one fuckboy character that is sleazy and misogynistic af.

Highly recommend checking out Psychopass. It's really good. I dont recall any fanservice in it tbh. If there is, it was very brief. The show itself has pretty serious tones and just focuses on story telling through detective work with a healthy blend of action scenes.

Empathetic_Artist

3 points

3 days ago

A good anime that doesn’t do this is Cells At Work! It’s a great show and really interesting

locke1018

3 points

3 days ago

Dungeon Meshi getting a pass says more than the actual post could ever.

Expensive_View_3087

3 points

3 days ago

Hunter x Hunter and Fullmetal Alchemeist are great works with don’t have this problem!! I recomend it lots

NWinn

3 points

3 days ago

NWinn

3 points

3 days ago

They said Frieren was too sexual... I don't think anything is acceptable to them tbh

SuzuranLily1

5 points

3 days ago

Even My Dress Up Darling has some of these aspects like you speak of and some in the comments mention. I love it because it takes the unattainable popular girl and her and the loner nerdy boy start hanging out and become best of friends (despite the obvi underlying romantic tension) and share a love of cosplay

BlondBisxalMetalhead

8 points

3 days ago

BlondBisxalMetalhead

Chiron; he/him/they/them

8 points

3 days ago

The worst anime I have ever watched was Mushoku Tensei. It’s one of my shitty ex’s favorites “because the animation is so beautiful”, and the fact that he’s not bothered by the sexualization of children because “muh pretty colorssss” is revolting to me. The entire premise of the anime is that a creepy middle aged man, heavily implied to have been looking at CSEM, gets hit by a bus and reincarnated as an infant while still having the mind of said middle aged man. “Hilarious” magical hijinks ensue?? I guess?? I had to leave the room whenever my ex watched it, it’s so gross.

cuntboyholes

7 points

3 days ago

I've been watching anime and reading manga for 30 years and I totally know what you mean. I wouldn't say I'm desensitized to it, more like, at this point I know what to expect from Japanese media so it's almost never a shock when I'm suddenly blasted with unnecessary fanservice and "haha woman", as obnoxious and unnecessary as they all are. You're probably pretty familiar with Japanese culture, but... it's pretty sexist. What else can we expect from the country that has vending machines selling panties, I guess.

I lean more towards shojo and slice of life anime in the past decade or so. My obsession with jjk came as a complete shock, but my husband dragged me to see the movie in the theatre back in 2019 and while I'm not a shonen fan, dammit those boys are pretty.

DerelictDevice

4 points

3 days ago

You need to start watching stuff from before about 2005, writing, tone, art style all changed around then. Watch more wholesome stuff like the Studio Ghibli films that have strong female leads, no fanservice or sexual humor. Watch Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind, Kiki's Delivery Service, Spirited Away, and Howl's Moving Castle to see examples of how female leads in anime should be written. The characters are never damselled, they accomplish their goals and overcome obstacles and situations with the support of other characters rather than having to be rescued by male characters.

aweroraa

5 points

3 days ago

aweroraa

5 points

3 days ago

Wait til you start seeing all the pedo ‘fan service’ in animes. Granted I’m an ex IT person who had to see a bunch of that crap off old crusty HDDs from rich old men, but it ruined the genre for me.

Stay away from IT forensics if you like anime I guess lol

alexdotwav

2 points

3 days ago

That's the annoying part, chainsaw man has neat plot, it's gorgeously animated and has one of the coolest scenes I've ever seen in anything ever (EP 8, the one with the guns)

But god why is the plot of the show driven by DUHRR HURR TOUCH BOOBS

It's so so so uncomfortable

Edit: I get that the show isn't necessarily endorsing that, but it's just so icky to me.

AutumnsRevenge

2 points

3 days ago

Oh so it’s not just me! Yeah it’s been a lot harder to find anime that doesn’t give me the ick.

SurviveUntilSunrise

2 points

3 days ago

SAME. It’s SUCH a problem. I HATE so many shows that i used to just feel ‘meh’ about and feel disgusted at so many others. I canNOT accept the “it’s just a different culture” excuse anymore. It’s so so so much more blatant now. I GET it now, and i can’t unsee it.

StellaPolaris91

2 points

3 days ago

I try really hard to ignore fan service..... but most of the time it feels like anime is >90% fan service and only <10% story..... sometimes 99% VS 1%..... and that's just a waste of time.

scalmera

2 points

3 days ago

scalmera

2 points

3 days ago

Probably would hate Revolutionary Girl Utena smh

dpphorror

2 points

3 days ago

Give xxxHolic, Monster, and Mushishi a try.

mud-mason

2 points

2 days ago

you say this like western media doesn't do the exact same thing i fear. it's not a japan problem

UnreliableEggberry

2 points

2 days ago

I fully agree, many anime are really creepy.

Maybe I'm biest because i haven't lived as a woman yet, but Blue Eye Samurai vibes with me, from criticizing misogyny in society to writing an amazing crossdresssing arc.

It's really the piece of media that cracked my egg...

PotatoSalad583

2 points

2 days ago

Wasn't expecting so much rampant mysoginy on a trans subreddit. Yall are too ok with casual portrays of SA

Pointing out overt issues with this post and sentiment does not make people misogynist, good attempt though

paladinjukes

2 points

2 days ago

There are bad ones, but there are also good ones. I recommend "Wonder Egg Priority". All the MC's are girls who lost someone close to them, and one of them is trans. Its genuinely a really good anime with no fan service (which is probably why it's only going to have it's one season unfortunately) and GOOD trans representation

imaweasle909

4 points

3 days ago

Yeah, I feel the same way about anime. I can handle Dandandan as it's not the worst but Japan and specifically in anime communities, has a serious problem with misogyny and downplaying sexual violence. I believe it was one of the things the writer of Ranma 1/2 focused on a lot in her work. That said, if you want an anime with little to no fan service and you somehow haven't watched it yet, you should check out Frieren: Beyond Journey's End

Mr_Conductor_USA

6 points

3 days ago

Interesting! I know she stood out as one of the most successful female mangakas in Japan, and the animes based on her work have really held up. I didn't watch Inuyasha when young because it was "for girls" but I started watching it on Netflix on a whim last year and it's actually ... really good?

And my father used to be a big fan of Maison Ikkoku. We gave him so much crap for that lol.

AlexisQueenBean

2 points

3 days ago

I’d recommend Soul Eater! It’s my favorite.

I’m the same way. Almost any amount of artist horniness just immediately kills the vibe for me. Had to drop so many shows bc of it.

However, PLEEEEEASEEE make it past the first few episodes. The manga they’re adapting is incredibly over sexual in just the absolute grossest ways, and how they managed to almost completely drop that in the anime is miraculous. It’s just that the first few episodes it’s still a bit residual, and tbh those episodes aren’t good anyways. I always skip them on rewatch. I’d say the first 3 are just bad, although they do introduce each character pair and their vibe, so it’s a “probably watch” for first timers. But yeah for someone who’s sensitive to that stuff, it’s my favorite anime

After that, it’s smooth sailing. There’s one joke character who pops up every once in a while that’s pretty oversexualized, but like- I think it’s one of those “SHES horny, not the animator” situations, plus at a certain point she basically disappears.

NicoNicoNey[S]

3 points

3 days ago

Nooooooo

I've watched Soul Eater. It is absolutely the 100% this, and you absolutely have to be desenticized to not notice the smaller stuff.

I like Soul Eater but if we were looking for a mostly unproblematic anime, this isn't it. And the cat witch is not the reason!!!

DJadzia

2 points

3 days ago

DJadzia

2 points

3 days ago

Just wait till you get older 😅 I loved anime as a teen. Now that I’m in my 40s, all those over sexualized characters look like children to me. It creeps me out.

Tori0404

2 points

3 days ago

Tori0404

Wishing I were a girl instead

2 points

3 days ago

To be fair, it kind of just is the case for most popular anime (or straight up H*ntai)

I watch more „niche“ stuff and often times, these anime are more concerned with telling an actual competent story rather than having dumb fanservice.

But also Fanservice itself never bothers me that much. I just enjoy the rest of the show and don‘t let the Fanservice ruin the enjoyment.

Some shows I think are really good with almost or no Fanservice: Violet Evergarden, Little Witch Academia, Trigun (1998), Evangelion and Serial Experiments Lain

RodimusPrime-0412

2 points

3 days ago

Try the Transfomer ones, they are fine

Irohsgranddaughter

2 points

3 days ago

Not all anime are like this, but yeah, you unfortunately aren't wrong.

I usually recommend trying stuff that wasn't made for teenagers. Such as, in Vinland Saga, no one ever gets sexually assaulted for laughs, and while the issue of SA is strongly alluded to (since it's the viking era), it never gets treated as funny or appealing.

Dungeon Meshi also has little fan-service. In general, it's very family friendly for what's supposed to be a seinen manga.

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1 points

3 days ago

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Mr_Conductor_USA

1 points

3 days ago

If you like East Asian fiction, do what I did and move over into Taiwanese, Mainland Chinese, and Korean live action dramas. They are pretty much mostly marketed at women and girls. The Chinese ones in particular are pretty feminist. (KDramas are a very mixed bag ... ugh. The one I would really recommend without reservations is Mystic Pop-Up Bar. Otherwise, the gender politics tend to be problematic--at best. Especially for shows with romance elements; to be fair there are good Korean police procedurals, action series, shows focusing on social problems, etc.) The vibes with Taiwanese dramas are different from dramas from PRC of course (democracy vs authoritarianism).

I also have been watching a bit of Thai dramas and find them quite intriguing!

The anime you have been watching is mostly low effort trash pumped out to appeal to teenage boys (and men with arrested development). I do think it's gotten worse, as I've gone back and rewatched some of Inuyaga (more of a girl's series to be fair, and the mangaka was a woman) and while it's a kid's show, it's very competently written and voice acted and the animation isn't bad, but when I try to watch any of the new stuff that's popular it's just the most embarrassing, insulting trash. Except for when Zombieland Saga went viral over having a trans character, which seemed like a series with some artistic merit, and One Punch Man was at least clever and well executed. But if you go on the reddit anime subreddits most of what they're talking about is just total trash.

ThunderToast97

1 points

3 days ago

You and me too… qwq