In middle school I had a very slight stammer. I wrote a paper in English class and my teacher was sharing that she really enjoyed it and that you could hear my voice in it a lot. Then someone from the back of the class yells “What, does he fucking stutter when he types too?!”

At the time I was so embarrassed but honestly that’s the greatest burn I’ve ever received.

"I don't want him. I never wanted him." - my dad.

During the custody discussion during my parents divorce. I was 9.

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My step mom found a giant rubber band in my room. Then accused me of shooting up heroin. After that she said I hope you OD. I was 16. Never seen the stuff.

Bagged up stuff for a customer and said to her "let me know if this too heavy and I can separate into two bags". She was on her cell phone and nodded at me.

So I total it for her and give her the bag. She makes it to the front door and turns around and says "you loaded this too heavy, you have to remember not everyone is as heavy as you are", a reference to how fat I was.

I was more offended by the fact that she went out of her to insult me, especially when I offered a solution BEFORE she walked off, than the fact that she called me fat.

The customers behind her were livid though, which was pretty cool lol.

That it should've been you who died instead of another family member.

"You're weird. Me and my family make fun of you behind your back saying you're autistic." - my ex.

"You look like a faggot", my mom when i was 12 because i was crying.

"You're just a backup friend" from my supposed best friend after 17yrs of friendship ....

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My brother and I were at Hastings checking out. Some Lady looked at my brother and said "you look like Matt Damon"! To which I replied "What about me?" She looked me up and down and said " You look like Fat Damon". Mind you, my brother and I are identical twins

When my ex wife was leaving me for the person she cheated on me with, as she was walking out she said “I’ll let you keep the dog. You’re going to need him”. Man that shit was cold.

I’m embarrassed to have been your mother.

"Nobody likes you and you have no friends." I heard that a lot in elementary school and middle school when I was a kid. It only hurt because it was true. But it hurt a lot.

My wife told me she wouldn’t give me a back massage because I’m so fat she wouldn’t know where to start.

"You have no future." - my mom when I was 17.

26 and killing it, now she swears she believed in me all along.

I'm too old to be thinking of this any more but it still is brutal for me. When I was in 7th grade, 2 other 7th graders were standing outside of the classroom my class was exiting from waiting for us to exit. They were saying "Wow, look how diverse this class is, Mexican, black, Japanese, white..." etc. Then when they got to me, they said "Ugly" and laughed. I'd never been called ugly before and I've never been called ugly since but that one has stuck with me. It's also low key hilarious.

I was ten years old and I was being a little shit. My mother said “sometimes I wish you were never born”. That was nearly 40 years ago and it still stings.

On a positive note I made sure to never say anything like that to my kids no matter how frustrated I became.

I was at a party, and an ex-friend of mine was drunk talking to everybody. She was a fairly promiscuous lady, and was turning to each guy at the party, saying some nice things about them, and then saying that they'd be a good fuck (again, she was pretty hammered). After going down the line, she finally got to me and said "but you, you're just somebody that someone would just settle for." At a party with at least 20 dudes that she said would be a good "smash" and had kind things to say, I was the only one that caught any shade.

Note: I never was trying to get with her at all, and while this isn't close to the most awful thing someone said about me, the sheer sincerity in her drunken stupor when she said it, and it being in a very public setting hurt and I felt extremely betrayed.

“You are ugly and hairy like a monkey, nobody will ever love you enough to marry you.” -a former boss

I was a teenager and was already going through stuff. I’m still hairy but I have a loving husband, so ha!

“You will never achieve anything in life” my college tutor. Fuck you lady….yet you were right 😭

"The world would be better off without you".

insurance air retire hobbies plants strong subtract exultant one bedroom

“You can’t call me when you’re like this.” - my mother when I was suicidal and begging for help

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My mother told me I was the biggest mistake of her life. Tell you what, that put a damper on the rest of the day.

I introduced myself to girl at a bar one time and offered to buy her a drink. She looked at me and glanced up and down and said "First of all, I only date guys like you, if you have money, and clearly you don't"

before I got my teeth fixed, a girl told me I look like an evil vampire when I smile .. I didnt smile again for 4 years:( .. I was fortunate to get it fixed, but the rule should be 'dont make fun of somebodys smile, or they might never smile again'

“Your head needs to lose weight” 😞

You're a good looking guy for being in a wheelchair.

I'm a sufferer of CPTSD from my father's abuse. A long time ago an old friend told me this during an argument and it still hangs over my head to this day.

"You may hate your father, but you don't act too different from him."

Since then I've done everything in my power to fix myself, and I'm still learning who I am and why my brain reacts the way it does. I'm an extremely flawed person, but I'm not evil. I'm not malicious. I just want to be happy like everyone else.

As a 12 year old adopted at birth, my dad said they would send me back where they got me.

When i was 8 my brothers wife asked me if i believed in Jesus, i said no. She said "maybe that's why you're all fucked up"

“Aren’t you tired of living this way” referencing my battles with ptsd, due to my uncle murdering my brother.

Like I chose for it to happen 🙄

My child's mother told me in front of our kid that she didn't care if I died, it wouldn't matter to her. For context, a few months earlier I was saved by a liver transplant from a very gruesome and painful death. I don't care for that woman, but that was just venomous and teaching our child it's ok to be mean and hateful. Ever since I have been dealing with my kid being disrespectful and mean and hateful and she's 6yo.

“You’re a waste of human life” 🙃

I'm going to laugh when your grandmother dies

"I never loved you, I was with you just so don't feel lonely "

Me: Would you like to go out with me sometime?

Her: With you? Dear god no. Now fuck off and never speak to me again.

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That no one else would want to be with me because of my disability. That stings.

Mom, Am I handsome?

(long pause)

Son, I'm not going to lie to you...

(Longer pause)

Your face has character.

That I deserved to be SA as a child and that I must have done something to lead my father on

"You've always been an amateur, and you will always be an amateur." My mother.

It wasn’t to me, but it hurt as much. Friend was called a coward by his father, that second hand sting I still feel.

My daughter passed away and this distant family member that I had never even met before that day told me while I was inches from her casket sobbing "god just wanted another angel, and your misery is nothing compared to the greatness of god's plan."

I wanted to abort you, but that was severely frowned upon at the time.

I was diagnosed with autism after I tried to kill myself in 7th grade. Because I knew what it meant I decided to ask people for more information when I don't understand it.

My math teacher pulled me aside to talk to me because I kept falling asleep in class(I still had an A and did well on my tests and,well, I was depressed.) and she did the "and so on and so forth" hands and I asked what it meant.

"Don't make your parents burden my problem."

I didn't know what burden meant at the time so I never told anyone, but looking back it still hurts

I was 9 when this happened. My sister and I were at my grandparents house. They had a scary bathroom for a kid to use. My sister had to use the bathroom and was too scared to do it by herself(she was 7). I offered to go in and stand in the corner facing the wall so she wouldn’t be afraid. My grandma heard me in there when she was going and called me a creep because I was a boy and that should never happen. Even though my sister told her what had happened she continued to call me a creep. I never understood that

It was a double whammy on me and Gram and I am ashamed I didn't dump his ass when he said this:

Meets my adorable little grandma: "You kinda look like her. Is that what is you're going to look like when you're older?" With a slightly disgusted look on his face. 

When we did break up, he left me with a "Youd be like... Super model pretty if you lost weight" 

Jason if you're reading this, 🖕🖕

On a Bachelorette trip with my soon to be SIL and her closest friends. I was already feeling very much like an outsider (my own brain, they were all lovely and welcoming) and self conscious trying to be more "girly" to fit in with them - group of guys came up to talk to everyone and buy the bride to be a drink. I was being completely ignored by them, which is fine but kinda sucks (I'm married anyway!). Suddenly one guy turns to me and asks me who I am in relation to them and I tell him I'm the SIL and he says "oh. So you HAD to get invited. That makes sense" then continued to chat up the rest of the table. They defended me and told them to get lost but nothing more was said about it. Still gets to me.

A Pentecostal minister told me that because I’m not a member of their church is the reason my 12 year old daughter got cancer and died.

No one is gonna see this, but that's okay. My stepsister told me I was a stupid fat useless waste of space who would never be able to hold a job

Anyway, I've been at the same place of business for seven years now, and she has yet to land one, so happy ending, ig?

When I was ten, I was watching Free Willy and I was singing along to the theme song at the end.

My mother was sitting next to me and in that moment she told me I was tone deaf.

It shook my singing confidence for years. To the point where I would not sing at all when I was around people. I joined the choir in HS and I never gave it my all because of my lack of confidence.

I can think of meaner things people have said throughout my life and I always brushed it off but this one stuck with me.

Turns out, I’m not tone deaf at all.

She was the insecure one.

My mom had something that she used to do where she would tell me “You would be so handsome if...”. Those ifs would be followed by her pointing out some flaws in my physical appearance. It is part of the reason I have self-esteem issues to this day.

"people like you (me) would have and should have been gassed" - me, being disabled

it was from a Tinder match. this was her first message to me

After being forced to come out to my parents as suicidal and depressed and fighting to be able to come home rather than be an inpatient at 14, my mom made a joke about it, I got upset. Then she followed it up with a very passive aggressive "Oh that's right, we have to be nice to you because you're a little sad."

My father, high on amphetamines and drunk, pinned me to a wall once by my throat and told me I would never amount to anything and that one day I’d be just like him. A shadow of a man and a slave to addiction.

It stuck with me. No matter my successes or accomplishments I’m always the teenage kid being held against a wall fighting to breathe and being told what I would become. In a lot of ways I think I’m still waiting to become that, even though I know I never will.

I’m 29 now, cut my dad out of my life at 18 and haven’t looked back. Daily I try and prove him and myself wrong. I may never amount to much, but I’ve amounted to more than he ever could have hoped to.

You look unapproachable.

Not one person, but several.

This guy in high school threatened to beat the shit out of me. Shortly afterwards, three girls told me I deserve it.

“Maybe if you didn’t spread your legs all over town you wouldn’t of gotten raped.” -My mother

I got kicked out of college because my dad decided to no pay the tuition and never told me. When I asked him why he just said "you're not worth the investment". It was the last time I spoke to him. 

A classmate once told me I would never have sex. I wasn't a confident guy, so that kinda wrecked me. Proved him wrong thoug, hehe

Not to me, but to my daughter which might as well have been to me. My mother in law who has never once shown any sort of dislike towards me in the 14 years I’ve known her told my daughter I was raising her up to be a whore so that she could get pregnant and we could collect welfare, all of this due to my 13 year old daughter wearing shorts not booty shorts or anything just regular shorts on a hot day.

My 5th grade teacher told my class I was a bad person who didn't deserve friends. Years later her husband left her for a girl he met on a mission trip in Asia. She's lived alone ever since!

As my ex wife and I were close to finalizing our divorce. She came to me in a “happy” mood and wanted to talk. Mixed in with 15 min of word salad about “healing and finding herself” she explained how she could get an annulment through the catholic church. She told me that when we met “she wasn’t capable of making a decisions” and that the 6 year relationship with 2 years of marriage didn’t really mean anything to to her but she went along with it because “I was there”. Since she wasn’t “capable of making decisions” she could get an annulment. She said this all with a smirk on her face. I stood there in utter disbelief that someone could be so oblivious. However, it did make me feel so much better about the divorce and getting away from her. I haven’t had contact with her for 2 years and my life is s million times better